WHEN THE SEX STOPS (BOOK COMING SOON!)

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It is hard to ignore the increasing sexual innuendo in the American culture. From Burger King to Trojan commercials, our culture is inculcated with images, sounds, suggestions, and acts. Sex is not wrong, immoral, or bad in its proper context because God created us to be sexual beings. Like any other effective advertisements, this exposure of sexual content has had an overwhelming impact on the psyche of people young and old. Commercials that originally sparked individual’s appetites for food now ignite the monstrous appetite to quench the sexual urge.

In a Drought?

A drought is when an ecological system or an area goes without precipitation for a prolonged or short period. No matter how long the drought last, it can have a significant impact on the land, farmers, animals, and plants. Results of drought can leave the soil without nutrients to reproduce healthy seeds. Regions experiencing droughts can become a breading ground for unwanted pest such as snakes. Aquatic life can be severely affected and some regions never recover.

All around the world, marriages are experiencing sexual droughts. These droughts leave relationships paralyzed and incapable of producing the fruit marriage was intended to produce. Unwanted pest such as side lovers, perverted behaviors, and pornographic affairs bombard the marriage, until it is vulnerable enough to dry the ink on the divorce papers. It impacts the kids, the pets, relatives, and ultimately the couple’s relationship with the Father. Many marriages never recover from these droughts.

I’m Hungry

When people see advertisements for the “Big Mac” or the “Whopper” they have free course to leave their premises and retrieve that sandwich to quench their thirsty urge. The satiety of the first bite deflates the appeal and brings comfort through food like a hunter claiming its kill. The same principle can reluctantly be applied sexually. Many people young and old, male and female grab their black book or rummage through their mobile phones looking for their next meal. Their list become like menus in their favorite restaurant looking for the next person to satisfy their beastly “God-given” urge.

Trapped by Contract

Fast food seekers have the ability to go and claim the kill of the day. They are tied to nothing but their budgets that may restrict them from their favorite meals. What happens when you are hungry and can’t fulfill that thirst? Like having a lock on the refrigerator, married men are caught between having food in the house but cannot access it at their sexual leisure and not having the liberty to leave the house search for their next meal. Many married men have experienced this contractual conflict. They become hungry, but can’t get to the sexual food that fulfills this God-given appetite. Sadly, although immoral and sinful, many men including those with various religious affiliations choose the latter. This work is aimed at assisting those married men during the time in their lives WHEN THE SEX STOPS!!